Thursday, March 29, 2012

An Understanding of True Friendship

So I have several things to talk about tonight.  The teacher in me is fighting the desire to post a Title 'Page' & outline right now.  Geek.  I'll resist.


So, first up, super sad news.  If you read a couple of posts ago, I asked for prayer for our 'eldest' doggy, Sky.  Cuban Daddy was contacted by the doctor this week, after she spoke to a specialist. Turns out, that our 7 year old Lab mix has a very rare tumor in his Thyroid.  Already, we knew it wasn't good.  He hasn't been himself for weeks now.  He is barely eating at all.  He's lost weight.  He barely wags his tail.  He struggles to get up sometimes.  Stairs are really difficult.  He almost never wants to go outside.  I'm so so sad to see him this way.  He was my first 'baby.' We rescued him- beautiful him- from a shelter adoption day outside a Petsmart soon after he was born. We were initially rejected b/c we didn't have a fenced in backyard at the time. I wanted him so bad as we walked back to our car, that I cried.  Big boo-hoos.  And I'm NOT a crier.  Without a word, Cuban Daddy got out of the car, leaving me there, was gone about 10 minutes, and then brought me the pup.  What?!  Yeah, he fought for him.  He fought for me.  He wanted to see me happy. That's just the kind of guy he is.  I'll never forget that.  I was SO excited!  He has been such a great dog.  So smart!  So, back to today.  The doctor said that he will soon have liver failure.  She doesn't know exactly how long...a couple months?  She said we just have to watch and see how bad he gets, and that we'll just know.  I just can't imagine that right now. :(  What to tell the babies?  How to comfort his 5 year old 'sister,' Roxy, who has only known life with him?  What will it be like with him gone?  And, gosh, I just don't want him to suffer!  There's a lot to process right now.  Thanks for the continued prayers about this.


Next up, on a different note- exciting news!  My Uncle & his sweet new wife (my new aunt!), has offered their home/"yard" to host our big Yard Sale!!!  You won't believe how perfect this is.  Remember how I mentioned that the Yard Sale was the overwhelming 'thing' for me right now?  I felt like maybe I had bit off more than I could chew.  And I still think that's possible.  But, I feel SO much better now b/c we have a great location!  And to top it all off, guess who doesn't have to advertise the Yard Sale?!  Me!!!!!!  That's right, what's so perfect is that my Aunt & Uncle's neighborhood is having a huge neighborhood-wide Yard Sale on the exact dates that we had planned to do ours!  There should be lots of traffic...yay!!!  *Sidenote, please let me know if you have something you would like to get off your hands that we could sell in the yard sale!  I'll be happy to come pick it up or meet you early.  Just let me know when!  (*Can we add a second sidenote? Same awesome aunt and uncle are also racing in a big road race this summer....and what did they decide to raise money for?  Yep, you guessed it...4xfaithful!  Talk about being overwhelmed.  I was!  So, so sweet.)  Okay, so address for 
4xFaithful's Adoption Yard Sale:
5409 Amity Drive, Powder Springs 30127




Reminder note. (1) Please spread the word about our upcoming (first fundraiser opp of this DOUBLING funds month!!!) Fundraiser Night at Otter's Chicken on Dallas Hwy (in Avenues).  www.otterschicken.com Delicious, affordable food, fun hang out times-we'll be there much of the night(!), and you are giving 15% of profits to our Adoption funds!  But, let me remind you: You are really giving 30% because in April, our funds are being DOUBLED!  (2) Also we should have our custom made Adoption T-shirts by next weekend...yes, in time for Otter's night!  We are selling the T-shirts for $20 each.  All profits (~$13/shirt) will, of course, go towards our Adoption fees.  I will post pics as soon as I see them!  If you want to order one (or two, or ten? haha!), just contact me some way & I'll get them to you!  You can pay cash, check, or PayPal  link on the blog.  I've come up with the design...I can't wait for you to see them!  :)  **Yes, teacher again.  Remember, if you buy an Adoption shirt during April, you are not donating $20...you are really giving us $40!!! (Doubled, right?!)


Another note.  This one both super exciting and super stressful all at once.  You know that big fat stack of paperwork I've mentioned once or twice? ;)  Well, the one we had sent in recently has been received by our home study agency.  The lady emailed me a couple of days ago, letting me know that they got it, and that she has assigned us a social worker.  And that the social worker would be contacting us soon.  Yeah, like 4 hours later?!  Unprepared.  But okay.  So, yes(!), let's get this show on the road!  Hold up.  She wants to come to our house to do our initial meeting/interview and home study tour on....Tuesday!!!  Yes, in 5 days.  And if you have seen my house lately... Wait, you haven't.  And there's a reason.  It's crazy!  Haha. :)  I know you moms of little ones know it's hard enough just to keep one room 'de-cluttered' w/o toys, crayons, little people, cheerios, shoes, sippy cups...everywhere!  So, we've got some straightening up to do! ;)
This leads me to my final topic of the night: friendship.   In the past few months, I have witnessed something.  People shining.  Unselfish people caring about others.  People wanting to do something good.  People helping others, despite their own circumstances.  People who lead busy, full lives that still take the time to offer a hand.  I am very humbled by the outpouring of love and support we have been shown.  We have had numerous financial donations...we are seriously in awe.  We know it is a lot of money to you...and it certainly is a lot of money to us!  Without you guys, I don't know how we would be able to bring our babies home.  And they deserve a home.  Our friends (**When I say 'friends,' I am definitely including family members as well.  You don't choose to be family, but you do choose to be a friend to your family. At least that's what I think.) have reached out, asking (messaging, emailing, texting, calling) "How can I help?  What can we do?"  First of all, we hate asking for help.  Cuban Daddy and I are both pretty independent little stinkers.  But, we know that this task is way bigger than us.  And we know we cannot do it alone.  Therefore, we did ask for help by posting on this blog.  And you all have more than answered.  I have close friends that have offered to take both G & K (along with their own little ones!) for a few hours so I could work on Adoption stuff.  They will never know how huge this really is!!!  For free.  This blog- created/designed by one of my best (busy) friends.  For free.  Help around the house in prep for the home study Tuesday?  Free.  An offer to help with the yard sale prep.  Free.  Donations for the auction we had?  Free.  I mean I could go on and on.  The point of this is just to recognize those who have gone above and beyond in blessing us.  You all know who you are.  If you have given an encouraging word, spread our story to others, made a financial or material donation, offered your help in any way, this thanks is for you.  Honestly & truly, you have taught me so much these past couple of months.  Lessons I will not forget.  I only hope that opportunities arise that we can return the favor in the future.  I really, really do.  Thank you, friends. 

 Now, let's bring those babies home!  =)


Humbled by your love for us & our growing family, 

~ 6 in Love ~




Trying to beat stress by enjoying a beautiful Spring picnic in our front yard!:


Eating another one of those little oranges!  
And on second looks, Mommy needs to attempt that trim again... 
 

Somebunny had an Easter party at school today!

Slightly out of order: Our picnic fun!

 Enjoying a stroll in their grandparent's yard (P & N)




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